someone got me into this. hahaha. naaaaaaaan!
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Friday, May 20, 2011
brain farts kay kadugay sang erflen
sometimes, you have to feel completely worthless in order to learn what grace truly is.
Relationships are like sharing a book. It doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Don't you hate it when you feel like your gonna cry but you can't cause you don't want anyone to see you crying? --> I never want anyone to have the benefit of seeing me cry but sometimes I just wanna bawl.
I'm just human. I'm fragile. I'm not perfect. Sometimes I hide sadness with my smile. But that makes me learn how to struggle in this life.
In life you learn lessons, and sometimes you learn them the hard way, and sometimes you learn too late.
New things cannot come where there is no room. --> my aunt told me this when i had too much "ex" clutter in my room. she was right. as soon as i got rid of everything from my ex, i felt lighter and ready for new things to come (which did, btw)
The past cannot be changed, forgotten, edited, or erased. It can only be accepted. --> what i don't like about the past is the feeling of regret whenever i think of the time i could have spent doing something awesome than wasting it on a useless piece of shiz.
Love is like a puzzle. When you're in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together. --> and sometimes some pieces get lost and that takes another length of time to be found.
They make it look so easy. Connection with another human being. It's like no one told them.. it's the hardest thing in the world.
If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one. Because if you truly loved the first one, you wouldn’t love another one.
More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them.
Sometimes you just have to step forward, and move on.. no questions, no doubts, no looking back.. Just move on.
Distance doesn't ruin a relationship, doubts do.
Sometimes things happen that you don't understand. trust..it's all part of a bigger plan.
When we lose one blessing, another is often most unexpectedly given in its place.
When one door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the door that just opened for us
Some people use Love as an excuse to put up with shit that you shouldn't.
It no longer makes sense to you to be "Second" in one peron's life, when you're good enough to be "First" in someone else's.
The silliest moments are what makes the best memories.
I hate those moments right before you go to sleep, when you are forced to think about all the things you tried so hard to forget.
Relationships are like sharing a book. It doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Don't you hate it when you feel like your gonna cry but you can't cause you don't want anyone to see you crying? --> I never want anyone to have the benefit of seeing me cry but sometimes I just wanna bawl.
I'm just human. I'm fragile. I'm not perfect. Sometimes I hide sadness with my smile. But that makes me learn how to struggle in this life.
In life you learn lessons, and sometimes you learn them the hard way, and sometimes you learn too late.
New things cannot come where there is no room. --> my aunt told me this when i had too much "ex" clutter in my room. she was right. as soon as i got rid of everything from my ex, i felt lighter and ready for new things to come (which did, btw)
The past cannot be changed, forgotten, edited, or erased. It can only be accepted. --> what i don't like about the past is the feeling of regret whenever i think of the time i could have spent doing something awesome than wasting it on a useless piece of shiz.
Love is like a puzzle. When you're in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together. --> and sometimes some pieces get lost and that takes another length of time to be found.
They make it look so easy. Connection with another human being. It's like no one told them.. it's the hardest thing in the world.
If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one. Because if you truly loved the first one, you wouldn’t love another one.
More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them.
Sometimes you just have to step forward, and move on.. no questions, no doubts, no looking back.. Just move on.
Distance doesn't ruin a relationship, doubts do.
Sometimes things happen that you don't understand. trust..it's all part of a bigger plan.
When we lose one blessing, another is often most unexpectedly given in its place.
When one door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the door that just opened for us
Some people use Love as an excuse to put up with shit that you shouldn't.
It no longer makes sense to you to be "Second" in one peron's life, when you're good enough to be "First" in someone else's.
The silliest moments are what makes the best memories.
I hate those moments right before you go to sleep, when you are forced to think about all the things you tried so hard to forget.
brain farts in nagsasa part 2
I can be smart and stupid at the same time. (hambal gani, "you are the most stupid smartest girl i know")
Sometimes just the act of sharing a painful secret can relieve some of the pain. For a very long time, I kept it in the farthest corner of my mind and my heart. I surprised myself when I blurted it out the week before (and while doing something trivial, like plantsa-izing hair). I dunno what got into me but it just came out and hearing it for the first time from my own mouth tugged at my heartstrings. It came back and it hurt again. So much. But after a while, the pain subsided and it was gone. I guess I just needed the right person to confess it to. I know it's the reason for one of my issues but after hearing it out loud, it isn't as painful anymore.
It's a horrible feeling to lose faith in someone. It leaves you lost and wondering. It makes you question whether you knew that person at all, or whether what you had was for real.
Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise.
I need to learn to say no, I'm fed up of being taken advantage of. This is one thing I really need to work on.
I wonder if others have felt like they have no control over their life and how they went pass this.
I wonder if can one get to the future if the (his/her) past is present.
Just when we thought we are matured enough, unexpected events would occur to make us realize we still have lots of growing up to do. I know I do.
They say the universe has a great sense of humor. That sometimes having your dreams come true can feel like a nightmare.
A woman can be your best friend, worst enemy, the girl of your dreams or the bitch you're scared of. It all depends on how you treat her.
They say every action has an equal and opposite reaction, and once something is set on motion, it can't help up to build a momentum
Eventually, one of two things will happen. He will realize you're worth it, or you'll realize that he isn't. In my case.....yun. hahaha
There will always be a choice. In the end, I needed to make a choice and I chose me.
No me called me a reserved person before, except my mom. and now you.
Sometimes just the act of sharing a painful secret can relieve some of the pain. For a very long time, I kept it in the farthest corner of my mind and my heart. I surprised myself when I blurted it out the week before (and while doing something trivial, like plantsa-izing hair). I dunno what got into me but it just came out and hearing it for the first time from my own mouth tugged at my heartstrings. It came back and it hurt again. So much. But after a while, the pain subsided and it was gone. I guess I just needed the right person to confess it to. I know it's the reason for one of my issues but after hearing it out loud, it isn't as painful anymore.
It's a horrible feeling to lose faith in someone. It leaves you lost and wondering. It makes you question whether you knew that person at all, or whether what you had was for real.
Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise.
I wonder if others have felt like they have no control over their life and how they went pass this.
I wonder if can one get to the future if the (his/her) past is present.
Just when we thought we are matured enough, unexpected events would occur to make us realize we still have lots of growing up to do. I know I do.
They say the universe has a great sense of humor. That sometimes having your dreams come true can feel like a nightmare.
A woman can be your best friend, worst enemy, the girl of your dreams or the bitch you're scared of. It all depends on how you treat her.
They say every action has an equal and opposite reaction, and once something is set on motion, it can't help up to build a momentum
Eventually, one of two things will happen. He will realize you're worth it, or you'll realize that he isn't. In my case.....yun. hahaha
There will always be a choice. In the end, I needed to make a choice and I chose me.
No me called me a reserved person before, except my mom. and now you.
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Monday, May 16, 2011
brain farts in nagsasa: part 1
Sometimes you just gotta SMILE! It's a lot easier than explaining why you're not!
I'm proud of my heart. It's been played, stabbed, cheated, burned and broken, but somehow still works. And it still wants to love.
Some people make your life better by walking into it while other people will make your life better by simply walking out of it.
Everyone comes into your life for a reason; some good, some bad. They shape, form and break us. But in the end they make us who we are.
Being single is a good feeling, no drama or heartaches. On the other hand, it gets lonely and you miss that feeling of being taken. (been having that feeling lately)
Life is too short to stress yourself with people who don't even deserve to be an issue in your life.
As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have a ton of friends, and more important to have real ones.
Its not easy, is it? Fighting for something you could have had and wondering if maybe it's already too late.
Some people are like clouds. When they disappear, it's a brighter day.
An "ex" is called an "ex" because its a "ex"ample of who you shouldn't be with in the future.
The best date is with someone who can take you anywhere without touching anything but your heart.
A person hates u for 1 of 3 reasons. 1.They wanna be you 2.They hate themselves 3.They see you as a threat
sometimes we learn something new about the past that changes everything we know about the present
There's always some truth behind: Just kidding, Knowledge behind: I don't know, Emotion behind: I don't care & Pain behind: It's okay
The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention before.
I HATE it when people only talk to me when they need something, I'm not stupid. I can tell if I'm being used or not.
Some people are real. Some people are good. Some people are fake & some people are real good at being fake
Be careful who you open up to, only a few people actually care, the rest are just curious.
I ignore texts. I let the phone ring. It's nothing personal, but people need to realize that sometimes I just don't wanna talk.
I love late night conversations with people i love.
Yes, I use too many smileys when I type, but I dont care!
I love it when I smile at someone and they smile back at me.
I hate when I look horrible in a group picture and the person that looks good refuses to delete it.
I play with my phone when I'm waiting for someone so I don't look stupid.
I don`t have bad handwriting. I have my own Font.
When I delete someone from the contacts in my phone, its feels like I'm deleting that person from existence.
It's not the song that makes me cry, it's the person that comes to my mind every time I hear it playing.
I honestly think that elderly people are adorable, and when I see old couples holding hands I can only hope that one day that will be me.
A hug always makes things just a little bit better.
(pic c/o tata vinoi...lamats!)
http://princesskumod.blogspot.com/2010/09/ive-learned-that.html
I'm proud of my heart. It's been played, stabbed, cheated, burned and broken, but somehow still works. And it still wants to love.
Some people make your life better by walking into it while other people will make your life better by simply walking out of it.
Everyone comes into your life for a reason; some good, some bad. They shape, form and break us. But in the end they make us who we are.
Being single is a good feeling, no drama or heartaches. On the other hand, it gets lonely and you miss that feeling of being taken. (been having that feeling lately)
Life is too short to stress yourself with people who don't even deserve to be an issue in your life.
As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have a ton of friends, and more important to have real ones.
Its not easy, is it? Fighting for something you could have had and wondering if maybe it's already too late.
Some people are like clouds. When they disappear, it's a brighter day.
An "ex" is called an "ex" because its a "ex"ample of who you shouldn't be with in the future.
The best date is with someone who can take you anywhere without touching anything but your heart.
A person hates u for 1 of 3 reasons. 1.They wanna be you 2.They hate themselves 3.They see you as a threat
sometimes we learn something new about the past that changes everything we know about the present
There's always some truth behind: Just kidding, Knowledge behind: I don't know, Emotion behind: I don't care & Pain behind: It's okay
The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention before.
I HATE it when people only talk to me when they need something, I'm not stupid. I can tell if I'm being used or not.
Some people are real. Some people are good. Some people are fake & some people are real good at being fake
Be careful who you open up to, only a few people actually care, the rest are just curious.
I ignore texts. I let the phone ring. It's nothing personal, but people need to realize that sometimes I just don't wanna talk.
I love late night conversations with people i love.
Yes, I use too many smileys when I type, but I dont care!
I love it when I smile at someone and they smile back at me.
I hate when I look horrible in a group picture and the person that looks good refuses to delete it.
I play with my phone when I'm waiting for someone so I don't look stupid.
I don`t have bad handwriting. I have my own Font.
When I delete someone from the contacts in my phone, its feels like I'm deleting that person from existence.
It's not the song that makes me cry, it's the person that comes to my mind every time I hear it playing.
I honestly think that elderly people are adorable, and when I see old couples holding hands I can only hope that one day that will be me.
A hug always makes things just a little bit better.
(pic c/o tata vinoi...lamats!)
http://princesskumod.blogspot.com/2010/09/ive-learned-that.html
kwestiyon!!
Love is far different from commitment. Love is a gift which anyone can have while commitment is a sacrifice for love that not everyone is capable of.
I find it sad that the word commitment is enclosed with duties and responsibilities that makes it heavy, which makes people afraid. They may be ready for love but not commitment. Come to think of it, isn't love enough to make a commitment? Or isn't commitment enough to show that one loves?
I find it sad that the word commitment is enclosed with duties and responsibilities that makes it heavy, which makes people afraid. They may be ready for love but not commitment. Come to think of it, isn't love enough to make a commitment? Or isn't commitment enough to show that one loves?
Sunday, May 1, 2011
insecurity
"A person who is INSECURE lacks confidence in their own value, and one or more of their capabilities, lacks trust in themselves or others, or has fears that a present positive state is temporary, and will let them down and cause them loss or distress by "going wrong" in the future. This is a common trait, which only differs in degree between people.
Insecurity may help to cause shyness, paranoia and social withdrawal, or alternatively it may encourage compensatory behaviors such as arrogance, aggression, or bullying, in some cases
Insecurity has many effects in a person's life. There are several levels of it. It nearly always causes some degree of isolation as a typically insecure person withdraws from people to some extent. The greater the insecurity, the higher the degree of isolation becomes. Insecurity is often rooted in a person's childhood years. Like offense and bitterness, it grows in layered fashion, often becoming an immobilizing force that sets a limiting factor in the person's life. Insecurity robs by degrees; the degree to which it is entrenched equals the degree of power it has in the person's life."
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